Thursday, 16 November 2017

Believe in yourself

Believe is made up of two words, be+live = means become live, be  energetic, be thoughtful and be fulfilled. Our life starts from us and ends on us as well. words  are easy to say than to do.
I want to share one story about it…..
There was a girl, who was very ambitious and wanted to become a big name in this world. But she was confused that what she should do ? according  to her family she was good for nothing, because she was a below average student. Everybody criticized her in a family. She used to be compared with siblings and other students in the class as well. She was very thin and lean. Most of all her father’s attitude was very negative towards her. But inspite of all these things, she had a very good habit of keep smiling in all situations. She used to make herself understand that she has a potential and she can do wonders.
But these words worked for only three days, afterwards she used to feel the same boring life, lots of negativity, negative attitude of society towards her. During this course of time one worst thing had happened  with her. She diagnosed  with Tuberculosis. She fainted after getting  this news. She thought that her life had come to an end. Now the environment had changed around her. All her family members and friends used to see her with pity. She felt hopelessness and helplessness ,she suffered with depression during that period. Then suddenly there was a financial crisis in her family. Now there were only two ways in front of her.
First, to become disappointed  and live the life as it comes and second was to work hard and support her family. she  opted second choice  and she started earning. Initially  she got  rejected. She used to cry many nights and again she started her journey with a broken heart. Her personal and social life had become disastrous but despite  of such negative influences she tread her path with a ray of hope  and self belief  in her heart and finally she achieved all what she wanted to have.
So what I concluded from her story is that one must not lose hope and self belief even in the darkest phases of life. Essentially one must keep working towards one’s goal and never belittle one’s own potential.


Monday, 6 February 2017

What makes us human?


ABSTRACT
The purpose of this article is to explain how we can be a true human. Is it our cognitive ability, our storytelling, our beliefs, our curiosity, our ability to cook, our culture that makes us human? Are we half ape or half angel? It has been an interesting challenge for me to have had the opportunity to write this article and to try and organize my thoughts on human exclusivity, inspired by the various contributions. There can be no doubt that this article will make us think about the basic question of what makes us human in a new light. We will also, no doubt, make our own choices of what it takes.

What makes us human? What makes a human different from other animals? This question can be read in several ways. We all know how to identify humans: (1) upright primates with (2) lively hands, (3) big brains, (4) short faces, and so on. But do we really feel that these qualities are enough to be a human?
We are the only creatures on earth that possess a brain which is developed to such an extent that we can ask this question to ourselves: Who exactly am I?  Someone who's heartless, is unkind and insensitive to other 's feelings. Being an emotionless human we can have a better life than the one we have now. We may impulsively answer ‘no’ to this, but let’s think about it. Think of all the emotions we go through every day, some good and some bad. We would be sacrificing the good but could that outweigh not feeling the bad? All of us at some point will go through heavy emotional blows in our lives and the consequences of these could last years. Many people now going through a particularly tough time would possibly jump at the chance to be emotionless. However, emotions do make us human. Answers will be very subjective, and no doubt some people out there who have been through a crippling life event would be desperate not to feel the pain and willing to sacrifice anything to be free from it.
To become a better human, we need to engage ourselves in a process of continual self-improvement and learning. This is done by creating a system of good habits and simultaneously eliminating “not-good” habits which over time will give us the right mental framework for dealing with people, situations, and unexpected events as they arise.
Tips to be a True Human (TH)
If we want to be a “True Human” or a better person or employee. It could be a simple matter of adopting the right behavior. Here I mentioned some qualities to be a good or True Human.
         Be Emotionally Open
         Be open and honest with those we love. Express our opinions and listen to others without criticizing.

         Be Honest
         Honesty is a way of life. It means we don't steal, we don't cheat and we are faithful enough.

         Be Happy
         It's not about money, looks or status. Being genuinely grateful for what we have.

         Be Confident
         Be confident in what we can--and cannot--do.

         Be Disciplined
         We are strong enough to say no to life's many temptations, from food to drugs.

         Be Respectful of Others
         When we treat others as we would like to be treated, we are showing the ultimate kind of respect.

         Take Pride in Yourself
         A feeling that we  respect our self and deserve to be respected by other people, While too much pride can be seen as sinful.

         Be Easygoing and Fun
         As the old saying goes, "Live, laugh, love." fun, is something that is a source of enjoyment, amusement, or pleasure.

         Be Empathetic
      Being empathetic to the needs of others, suffering for the sake of another is the act of kindness and goodness we accomplish as human beings.

          Have a Sense of Humor
         We have to be able to laugh, especially at yourself. And laughing is almost always better than crying.

Thank You
Rachna Garg
Sr. Faculty
PC Training Institute


Friday, 22 May 2015

NEW AGE COMMUNICATION



The Technological revolution brought with it the information revolution which, in turn, ushered in the communication revolution. It is quite ironical then, that the generation which spent its adolescent years in this communication revolution lack, the basic communication skills.
We live in a world where youngsters have a limited repertoire of expressions. These are the kids who spend rest of their time pouring over online social networking websites-a time which is limited to superficial interaction with acquaintances and most of it goes into just browsing over other people’s lives. The days of letter writing with comprehensive description of one’s life are long gone. Those were times when communication could not make with the click of a button hence it was a necessity to have effective communication skills. but now the current generation has developed a new language which is better known as the” sms language” where the vocabulary is significantly reduced to a few functional words and even those select few functional words are reduced in length. For example,”How are you” becomes “Hw r u “,”tomorrow” becomes “2moro”,”awesome” becomes “awsm",and so on so forth.

Monday, 11 May 2015

Parent Child Relationship



Parents are the ones whom a child learns to trust. Parents and families are the most important people in children’s lives. The many different relationships people form over the course of life span, the relationship between parent and child is among the most important. 

The parent-child relationship consists of a combination of behaviors, feelings and expectations that are unique to a particular parent and a particular child. The relationship involves the full extent of a child’s development. 

Parenting is gardening – The universe blossoms in the face of child. By bringing out the best in your child , you bring out the best in the universe. The sleepless nights, the career sacrifices, the postponing of your so many activities . The prize of parenting comes at a price.  Parents show their children how to live. In childhood, children cannot face troubles and parents show them how to conquer problems. Parents keep away them from danger and warn them. Besides that they support their children with no expectation. 

“All children behave as well as they are treated.” When parents have warm, trusting and reliable relationships with peers, family, they are more likely to have positive relationships with their children.
Spending time with children is necessary because most of the parents are working and they do not have sufficient time to pay attention to their kids. As a result of which the child is left almost alone. You must need to give him or her company apart from paying attention to other daily routine work.
Tips to boost your child’s confidence and self-esteem: